{"id":18007,"date":"2021-02-11T18:08:52","date_gmt":"2021-02-11T14:08:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/18007\/"},"modified":"2021-02-11T18:08:52","modified_gmt":"2021-02-11T14:08:52","slug":"dating-apps-privacy-and-safety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/18007\/","title":{"rendered":"Your guide to safe and private online dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our world has been moving toward the digital plane for more than a few decades, and 2020 saw its pace pick up. Most likely 2021 will be no different, and dating\u2019s strong presence in the online world is no surprise. Online dating apps such as Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, Zoosk, and the like are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/tinder-hinge-revenue-subscriber-growth-match-group-earnings-2020-11\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">continuing to grow<\/a> their audiences.<\/p>\n<p>On the one hand, when it comes to building relationships, people have a lot of information to share \u2014 and that\u2019s what many people are doing on Tinder and other apps \u2014 posting a lot of information, often true, about themselves. On the other hand, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-tips\/14030\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">bots and crooks look for prey on dating platforms<\/a>, and the more data you give away and the more eagerly you participate in the platforms\u2019 activities, the easier it is for those malicious elements to succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Today, we\u2019re discussing how to use those dating apps safely and privately, but without lowering your chances of meeting the person you hope to meet.<\/p>\n<h2>How to set up your safe and private Tinder profile<\/h2>\n<p>Your Tinder profile should contain only three items. (I\u2019ll be talking Tinder here, but the following is broadly true for other apps as well.)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Your photos. Use real photos of yourself, but choose ones that don\u2019t give away unnecessary information such as your address, employer, and so on. Choose photos from trips or of landmarks, with no personal data and no other people. Remember that someone can use the photos you post to find your social media profiles, so choose photos that don\u2019t appear anywhere else, and don\u2019t forget to <a href=\"https:\/\/privacy.kaspersky.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">set up your social media accounts correctly<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Your name. Whether you use a pseudonym or your real name, don\u2019t give up your full name here. Consider that using a nickname may result in confusion, though.<\/li>\n<li>Your interests. If you\u2019re looking for a relationship, fill in at least a few, keeping in mind that hobbies and interests may be important criteria for potential partners.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Some don\u2019ts<\/h3>\n<p>Using dating apps, you may encounter some traps as well. Here are a few to avoid.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Don\u2019t tie your Instagram (or other social media accounts) to your dating app profile. That gives away too much potentially usable information about you. Even if you\u2019ve already <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/keep-instagram-secure\/11045\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">set up Instagram for privacy and security<\/a>, there\u2019s more risk than reward in tying the accounts together.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t share your phone number or a messaging app handle. Dating apps strongly recommend sticking with their built-in message platforms, and it is wise to do so until you are sure you can trust the person you\u2019re chatting with. Also, when you are ready to move to Telegram or another messaging app, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/telegram-privacy-security\/38444\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">set it up<\/a> to keep your private info secure.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to communicate safely on Tinder<\/h2>\n<p>Once you have a match, it\u2019s probably time to talk to them. But don\u2019t rush to tell your whole life story \u2014 and not just because that would be awkward. Basically, before telling your match something, consider how you would feel if it became totally public. If you wouldn\u2019t be comfortable with that, keep it to yourself for now.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that you\u2019re talking to a stranger. They might become the love of your life, but for now they could be anyone, so unfortunately, you have to keep <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Doxing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">doxing<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stalking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">stalking<\/a> in mind. Those kinds of assault can begin with personal information given to the wrong person, so, again, don\u2019t rush to share private details.<\/p>\n<p>The person you\u2019re talking to may be every bit as kind and understanding as they seem, but they could also be a crook who has taken on someone else\u2019s persona. Crooks commonly build trust before asking for money (urgently) or information. Being asked for money or gifts in a dating app is perhaps the hugest of red flags, so, no matter the reason \u2014 and whether it\u2019s a small amount of money to get to your place or a larger sum to pay ransom on your match\u2019s life \u2014 if they ask for money, cut off communications. The chances they are telling the truth are negligible.<\/p>\n<p>Crooks may also try to phish some of your private data, so be wary if your match asks you to install an app on your phone or to visit a certain website, or starts asking questions about, say, your favorite teacher or your first pet (common website security questions). What do you have to lose? Well, the app may be malicious, the website may be a phishing page, and that information can help someone steal your money or identity.<\/p>\n<p>Being cagey online can help you stay safe, but it\u2019s also important to have a <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/premium?icid=me-en_bb2022-kdplacehd_acq_ona_smm__onl_b2c_kdaily_lnk_sm-team___kprem___\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">good security solution<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0that has your back and automatically scans Web pages and new apps.<\/p>\n<input type=\"hidden\" class=\"category_for_banner\" value=\"ksc-trial-generic\">\n<p>Another kind of account you may run into on dating services belongs to bots. They are here for the same reasons: to try to lure you into giving away your money or data. Unlike those of the crooks, however, these accounts are automated. If you get a funny feeling about a chat, and if the other person\u2019s replies don\u2019t quite match up with your questions, it\u2019s safe to assume you\u2019re talking to a bot and stop replying completely.<\/p>\n<h2>Staying out of sight<\/h2>\n<p>A few more tips may come in handy for using Tinder and other dating apps \u2014 or for <em>not<\/em> using them after you\u2019ve started dating someone promising. Most such services automatically hide your profile after a certain period of inactivity, but it\u2019s better to do it yourself, if for no other reason than to avoid giving your new partner the idea that you\u2019re still using the app. Of course, that\u2019s not the only reason to hide your profile, a source of information about you that no longer needs to be public.<\/p>\n<p>Another option may suit you at any stage \u2014 while you\u2019re casting a net, meeting someone new, or getting involved \u2014 is revealing your profile only to those people that you\u2019ve liked. That way, the whole world doesn\u2019t get to see your data. Narrowing that view to a limited number of people lowers the odds of your profile information getting into the wrong hands.<\/p>\n<p>Now that you know the basics of dating app privacy, I suggest reading this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-tips\/14030\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">post about common scams on dating services<\/a>. And I wish you good dating \u2014 have fun out there!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to set up and use dating apps safely and privately.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2632,"featured_media":18008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1523,1534,1524,43],"class_list":{"0":"post-18007","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tips","8":"tag-dating","9":"tag-dating-apps","10":"tag-oversharing","11":"tag-privacy"},"hreflang":[{"hreflang":"en-ae","url":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/18007\/"},{"hreflang":"en-in","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.in\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/22517\/"},{"hreflang":"en-us","url":"https:\/\/usa.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/24232\/"},{"hreflang":"en-gb","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.uk\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/22299\/"},{"hreflang":"es-mx","url":"https:\/\/latam.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/21045\/"},{"hreflang":"es","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.es\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/24712\/"},{"hreflang":"it","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.it\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/23948\/"},{"hreflang":"ru","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.ru\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/30122\/"},{"hreflang":"tr","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/9337\/"},{"hreflang":"x-default","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/38754\/"},{"hreflang":"fr","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.fr\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/16402\/"},{"hreflang":"pl","url":"https:\/\/plblog.kaspersky.com\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/14485\/"},{"hreflang":"de","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.de\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/26234\/"},{"hreflang":"ja","url":"https:\/\/blog.kaspersky.co.jp\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/30042\/"},{"hreflang":"nl","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.nl\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/26703\/"},{"hreflang":"ru-kz","url":"https:\/\/blog.kaspersky.kz\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/23556\/"},{"hreflang":"en-au","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.au\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/28896\/"},{"hreflang":"en-za","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.za\/blog\/dating-apps-privacy-and-safety\/28703\/"}],"acf":[],"banners":"","maintag":{"url":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/tag\/dating\/","name":"dating"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2632"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18007"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18007\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}